first thing first

My wedding was at my house

I would not change that for the world

it was so special, and so calming to have it there.

I was able to get ready in the bathroom I grew up getting ready in

I was able to get dressed in my bedroom

I wasn't worried about not having the things I needed

because I was at my house. 

I think my house is absolutely beautiful

and my mom is such a wonderful gardner 

it was just perfect. 

I would suggest getting married somewhere that is just perfect for you

and that won't stress you out.

I would say though

that it is a common misconception to think that 

having a wedding at a house is cheaper

you have to rent everything that a venue already has.
{but I have never had a wedding at a venue}

Just set a budget and stick to it.

I promise that no one will notice if your silverware is the cheap plastic

and the napkins are plain. 

{it all gets thrown away anyway}